Why do people have to be mean? I work with a person who, for the past 1 1/2 years has had a snarfy attitude toward me. I have no idea what her problem is so I recently asked a few people if they felt the same vibe as I did. I found out that the person has a shitty life, shitty husband, and isn't happy. I say leave that crap at home, I'm sorry you are unhappy but you don't have to act bitchy toward the rest of us. It makes working with you difficult.